..My LiFe Is MINE..

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Wednesday, January 16, 2013

An Equation

Salam and Greeting~

Moga semua2nya baik2 belaka, InsyaAllah


Bake A Cake + Eat A Cake + Give A Cake

are equals to
( = )

Life of Engagement + Life of Enjoyment + Life of Contribution


sumber gambaq : encik google :)

Friday, January 11, 2013

Kenapa Mesti Dia?


Salam and Greetings~
Hi Peeps, moga sihat2 dan sentiasa dirahmati Tuhan sentiasa..

Jumaat : 11 Jan 2013

Allahuakbar, Allahuakbar,
Azan berkumandang menandakan telah masuk waktu subuh bagi kawasan Bangi dan yang sewaktu dengannya.. Alhamdulillah, segala puji bagi Allah, Tuhan yang menghidupkan kita sesudah mati (tidur), dan hanya padaNya kita meminta pertolongan,. 
Bangun dengan longlai, sebab badan masih letih, mata masih mengantuk, dan geram diri ni tak boleh tidur dengan lena semalam,.

Melangkah ke bilik air dengan muka basi lagi, haha,. Tapi, orang kata, kalau nak tengok muka yg betul2 'asli', tengok la waktu lepas bangun tidur,. Tapi bagi Fini, macam takda beza pun muka bangun tidur dengan waktu jaga,. Sebab Fini memang bukan jenis yang duk menconteng2 muka dengan make up jadi warna warni seumpama warna pelangi pun, hii,. nak jugak mention pelangi kan? :) Harus lah, identiti unik tu, wink2,.

Dalam pukul 9 camtu, siap2, nak keluar jap,. Ada date? Haruslah tak, ada hal penting jap,. Da settled apa semua, pergi isi perut jap kat bakery, b4 gastrik datang menyerang lagi,. Makan2, sembang2, gelak2, usha2 org tertidur, intai2 deko hiasan rumah, Dengan gigihnya melangkah ke gedung ilmu PTSL,. ha, sapa2 student UKM yang tak tahu PTSL tu apa, meh sini nak sekeh pale tu jap, haha,. Tengahari, mata memang da mula mengantuk da ni,. Tengok orang depan, da selamat lelap da,. So,mula lah tutup buku, buat2 nak 'rehatkan' mata jap,. Tapi,..... zZZzzzZZZzzzZZZ,. selamat~

Waaa,. Tak tahu la berapa lama da terlelap ni,. Yang pasti, sempat jugak la 'termimpi',. Oh, kira hebat jugak tidur kali ni,. Sempat masuk fasa2 tidur yang lengkap dengan mimpi lagi tu,. Nasib le tak kena denda,. Tidur dalam library adalah melanggar tata susila okay,. Nampak sangat badan tak cukup rehat kan,.

Tapi, tapi, tapi, nak tahu tak siapa yang masuk mimpi td tu? Prince Charming? oh, ini bukan mimpi Cinderella,. Mimpikan suami? Oh, Fini masih belum upgrade status jadi isteri orang,. apatah lagi nak mimpikan pasal anak2,. Mimpikan Abah mama? Tak jugak,. Mereka ada dekat dengan Fini sekarang ni,. Ha, nak tahu mimpi siapa,. Enrique Iglesias,. hiccup,. Terkedu jap.. Oh, kenapa mesti dia? Langsung takda kaitan antara hidup dan matiku,. Kenal pun tak,. Apatah pernah jumpa dan jatuh cinta,. Kenapa? kenapa? kenapa? Padahal lama da tak dengar mamat ni menyanyi2 gituhh,. Adui, kalau mimpikan abah mama kan dapat pahala, lagi bagus,. Mimpikan bentuk2 soalan exam pun berfaedah la jugak,. Ni mamat yang tak pernah jumpa pun ni,. Dush2, ketuk kepala jap, apasal lah otak ni gatal sangat nak mimpi benda yang tak berfaedah, haha,.

Siapa Enrique Iglesias? Ha, mamat ni penyanyi, model dan songwriter, (Sumber, encik Wiki),. Dalam banyak2 lagu dia, Fini tahu 1 lagu je,. Taking Back My Love,. err, tu pun baru tahu, padahal da released bertahun lamanya, haha.. Nak tahu siapa dia, ha, silalah tengok video kat bawah ni,. Amaran : Video agak tak senonoh k,. Langsung takda nilai ketimuran,.

Dear otak, tolong la pilih mimpi yang senonoh sikit ye lain kali :)

Tak suka video ni,. Motif kau gaduh sampai nak campak/ musnahkan semua barang? membazir kau tahu tak?! Geram!!

#Don't You Know I'm Not Attached to Material#

( taking back my love's video clip,. Sumber: Youtube)

Kenapa Mesti Tinggal Satu?

Salam, Hi peeps:)

Alhamdulillah, Allah masih memberikan kita peluang untuk terus bernafas, untuk terus menikmati kurniaan Illahi, untuk terus mencari peluang bertaubat membersihkan diri..

Syukur Ya Allah, segala puji hanya Milik Allah! Dan sesungguhnya Muhammad itu pesuruh Allah yang benar..

Hmm, sejak2 tiada perrhubungan dan cinta Muka Buku ni, rajin pula tangan ni nak meng'update' entry, ber'story mori' (rosak bahasa ni, maafkan Fini) dengan followers dan viewers blog Fini yang tak seberapa dan entah pape ni :) (Terima kasih, dear)

Tadi, tengah2 makan, teringat pula satu puzzle yang memang 'da lama bertahta' di pemikiranku yang kian berkarat ni, huhu,. Rasanya, bukan Fini seorang sahaja yang perasan or mengalaminya,. Pasti ada juga insan2 istimewa yang turut merasai/ mengalami peristiwa yang sama..

Ha, ni dia situasinya,. Pernah tak korg semua duduk sembang2, gosip2 dengan kawan2, then ada makan2? Tak kisah la makan kerepek keropok, buah-buahan, cakes, dan lain2 yang masih berada di dalam kategori makanan.. Sedang asyik sembang2, makan2, korg perasan tak, makanan terakhir ( yang tertinggal dalam pinggan, plastik, polistrin dan sbgainya) pasti takda sape pun nak amik,. Maksudnya, makanan yang terakhir tu mesti takda sapa pun nak habiskan,. Kenapa ye? Why, why, why? Kenapa mesti tinggal satu?

Malu ke nak habiskan? Siapa yang habiskan makanan tu kena 'cop' kuat makan ke? Semua da kenyang ke? Pelik kan? Kenapa mesti tinggal satu? 

contohnya macam ni,. Kan tinggal satu je
(sumber gambar, en.google)

Ni lg satu contoh,. hmm, tapi, kalau ni yg tertinggal, Fini da habiskan dulu da :) cupcake kot :)
(gambar ini juga disumbangkan oleh en.google)



musykil2,. Semalam, Fini tanya juga kat kwn2,. Kenapa ye benda ni berlaku? Kwn2 perasan juga benda ni terjadi, tapi, tiada siapa pun yang boleh bagi jawapan yang pasti,. Hmm, unsolved! Susah juga ye,. Yela, rasionaliti masing2 kan berbeza,. Rasionaliti itu subjektif,. Kebanyakkan kwn2 yang Fini tanya, pastinya jawap, 'tak tahu', 'a'ah, kenapa ye', 'hmm. segan kot', dll,. So, Fini pun still tak dapat jawapannya,. 

Kadang tu, sedih juga bila tengok makanan yang terakhir tu dibuang begitu saja,. Tapi, Fini ni cepat kenyang,. Memang susah la nak paksa diri makan sampai habis,. Hmm, padahal kita tak tahu berkat makanan tu ada kat mana kan,. Permulaannya ke? Pertengahannya ke? Or yang akhir2? Hmm, nampak gayanya, Fini ni kena belajar lah menghargai makanan :)
Okay lah, puzzle da diberi, cuma masih tiada jawapan yang pasti,. Kalau ada jawapan, share2 la ye :)

p/s : sila belajar menghargai apa yang kita ada,. Jangan membazir yang bukan2,. Ambil makanan ikut tahap kelaparan kita,. Ingat, membazir itu kan amalan syaitan,. uih, Fini tak nak la kawan dengan syaitan,. ha, anda bagaimana? Hingga berjumpa lagi~ :)

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Deactivated!

Salam Peeps,.

Juz a short entry 4 diz time,.
Sila jangan terkejut k kalau perasan Fini da mula ghaib di dunia 'Muka Buku'..
Deactivated!

FB membunuh!!Tu je yang mampu Fini cakap sekarang,. Dari duk sakit2 hati dengan segala perihal di Muka Buku, membawa diri jauh2 adalah salah satu cara yang terbaik kot,.  Lagi2 musim exam sekarang,. FB bukan sahaja membunuh jiwa dan perasaan, tetapi juga turut membunuh mood study, hihi,. Mana taknya, sikit2 rasa nak 'intai2' story mory kt FB kat,. Cara terbaik, deactivated! :)

It's juz temporary,. Jangan risau2, I'll be back soon :)
Hingga berjumpa lagi, hihi,. 

p/s : pedih rupanya terasa hati dengan kawan sendiri,. Terima kasih, kawan (takde kaitan pun terasa hati dengan sbb deactivating FB tu,. Juz da takde tempat nk luah, sini pun boleh, :D )

~ someday soon ~

Sunday, January 6, 2013

Bunga Harum Di Kejauhan

Bismillah,
Subhanallah, Alhamdulillah, Allahuakbar!
Selawat dan salam buat nabi junjungan Muhammad SAW..

Salam & Greetings..
Hi peeps :)
Entri kali ini khas buat adik2ku tercinta
yang dirindu sentiasa, setiap ketika, setiap masa..
24/7 gitu, hihi


Adik pertama

* ayen / Nur Affandi ,21 tahun*
pemurah, 'ahlong tak berbahaya', hihi
penyelamat ketika mhadapi masalah kewangan
bagi dia, 'takda awek lg senang', bagus!
tinggi lampai
nak tahu panjang mana,. ha, panjang ni (tengok gambar)


Adik Kedua

*Baby / Nurul Shahida, 19 tahun*
Garang, tapi baik hati :)
Soal Fesyen, dia la yg paling up-to-date
Kt rumah, selalu gaduh dgn dia,
bila jauh, tahu pulak nk rindu, haha,.
Tu namanya dekat2 bau tahi, da jauh bau bunga :)
Suka beli shawl dan jam
Gila Oren!

Adik Ketiga

*Wani / Nurul Syazwani, 15 Tahun*
entah kenapa dia ni sesat sorg2 minat korea
paling ramai peminat dalam keluarga
selalu gak gaduh dgn dia ni
cita2 nak bukak spa kecantikan dan salon
pergh, dia ni kalau bersiap, macam pengantin lamanya, huhu

Adik Keempat

*Bacha / Akif Ukasyah (baju biru), 12 tahun*
paling rajin buat homework
rajin jugak tolong kakak2 dan abang dia
bagus adik ni, mandi tepat pada masanya
tapi, kalau time 'angin tak betul', janganlah kacau :)
gila bola.. 
sila jangan bagi remote tv kt dia
(alamatnya tengok Arena je la sampai malam)

Adik Kelima

* Boboy / Hafiz Adli, 10 tahun)
selalu perasan comel
katanya dia terer main bola dan akan masuk SoccerKids nnt
nakal, kuat mengusik
MATA DUITAN
tak tipu,. patut r pandai Math
manja budak ni :)

Adik Bongsu

*Nonoi / Syafiah Insyirah, 8 Tahun*
manja,
pandai dan suka melukis
mula berjinak2 dengan pemakaian tudung
anti dengan skirt pendek dan sebagainya
kalau call dia, kena jarakkan phone dari telinga
suara tersangatlah kuat dan nyaring, hahaha
ada bear yg namanya "kaklong"
hee, rindu la tu kn,.
kata dia, nnt nak belajar psikologi
sbb nk jadi doktor 'org gila' cam kaklong dia ni ha :P


adik2 ku sayang,
walau mama abah sering pening kita duk bertekak kt rumah
bergaduh sana sini

tapi percayalah
indahnya pertalian saudara ini
indahnya pergaduhan 'manja'
indahnya kita dikurniakan Mama Abah
indahnya kehidupan keluarga kita

akan makin terasa bila kita menigkat dewasa
akan makin terasa bila kita jauh dari keluaga
so, hargailah tiap detik yg ada

patutlah org kata,
dekat2 bau tahi,
bila kita jauh sendiri,

rindu itu makin menjelma,
makin terasa
makin mencengkam jiwa
:) :) :) :) :) :)


p/s :jangan nangis rindukan sy ye :)
Cinta.Hingga.Ke.Syurga
insyaAllah

Friday, January 4, 2013

Through A Rapist Eyes *shared*

Salam n Greeting,.
Hi, peeps , hi reader..

Switch on lappy - log in Facebook- Speechless..

wanna know what I've found and read? Okay, I'll share it here.. Keep reading, and start to alert ya? Beware, dear..


‎"THROUGH A RAPIST'S EYES" (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. it may save a life.) Click Share Button To share it on your Wall.

It seems that a lot of attackers use some tactic to get away with violence. Not many people know how to take care of themselves when faced with such a situation. Everyone should read this especially each n every girl in this world.


THOUGHT THIS WAS GOOD INFO TO PASS ALONG...
FYI - Through a rapist's eyes! A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle.
They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid
or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who's clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don't have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged
because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas, or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you're not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or
with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask
them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk:
can't believe it is so cold out here, we're in for a bad winter. Now
that you've seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up,
you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a
particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy's parts it
is extremely painful. You might think that you'll anger the guy and
make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he's out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don't dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ....
I know you are smart enough to know these pointers but there will be some, where you will go "hmm I must remember that" After reading, forward it to someone you care about, never hurts to be careful in this crazy world we live in.

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you.... chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back
tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like
crazy. The driver won't see you but everybody else will. This has
saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON'T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or
parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be
hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the
passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you! u are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the
passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling
them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and
the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest
your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are
horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times;
And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a
good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked "for help" into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

I'd like you to forward this to all the women you know. It may save a life. A candle is not dimmed by lighting another candle.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it's better safe than sorry.

‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.
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